Some of us find it more vulnerable to give.
Some of us find it more vulnerable to receive.
Both tendencies can actually be control mechanisms- by always giving,
we never have to actually take in another’s love;
by always receiving, we never have to risk someone rejecting our love.
The healthier relationships are those where we can celebrate and be celebrated,
where we can love and be loved.
A mutual appreciation society with everyone’s heart on their sleeves.
How beauty-full is that.