Tuesday, March 24, 2015


This is the thing: When you hit 28 or 30, everything begins to divide. You can see very clearly two kinds of people. On one side, people who have used their 20s to learn and grow, to find … themselves and their dreams, people who know what works and what doesn’t, who have pushed through to become real live adults. Then there’s the other kind, who are hanging onto college, or high school even, with all their might. They’ve stayed in jobs they hate, because they’re too scared to get another one. They’ve stayed with men or women who are good but not great, because they don’t want to be lonely. … they mean to develop intimate friendships, they mean to stop drinking like life is one big frat party. But they don’t do those things, so they live in an extended adolescence, no closer to adulthood than when they graduated.
Don’t be like that. Don’t get stuck. Move, travel, take a class, take a risk. There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither. This season is about becoming. Don’t lose yourself at happy hour, but don’t lose yourself on the corporate ladder either. Stop every once in a while and go out to coffee or climb in bed with your journal.
Ask yourself some good questions like: “Am I proud of the life I’m living? What have I tried this month? … Do the people I’m spending time with give me life, or make me feel small? Is there any brokenness in my life that’s keeping me from moving forward?”
Now is your time. Walk closely with people you love, and with people who believe life is a grand adventure. Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned. Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep traveling honestly along life’s path.

Sunday, March 15, 2015

Don’t check out. Don’t go back to sleep. The world desperately needs you — it needs your talents, your passion, your ideas, your voice.
Yes, these are hard times, dark times, strange times. Yet, something wonderful and raw is rumbling and singing and coming back to life.


Friday, February 6, 2015

You are not just here to fill space or be a background character in someone else’s movie. Consider this: nothing would be the same if you did not exist. 
Every place you have ever been and everyone you have ever spoken to 
would be different without you. 
We are all connected, 
and we are all affected by the decisions and even the existence of those around us.
David Niven 

Thursday, February 5, 2015

I will hold your hand when you are a pocketful of roses.
I will hold your hand when you are brittle falling leaves.
I will hold your hand when you are a ray of sunshine.
I will hold your hand when you are painful as ice.

Mark Dimaisip

Wednesday, January 28, 2015


Wednesday, January 14, 2015

'Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you chose your life, 
you didn’t settle for it.'

Saturday, January 10, 2015

'Have patience with everything unresolved.
Love it all.
The confusion. The mess. The raw, red rims of your eyes. 
Love the experience of being reborn. Love the experience of watching the old way of life die. Watch everything burn. Watch everything go. Don’t be afraid.
This. This is how you find your way. You don’t notice the changes as they come. 
You just wake up, one bright morning — sky the color of robin’s eggs — 
and you realize that you are there. 
And you open the door and smell the restless air and say a prayer of profound thanks.
Live the questions. 
And, perhaps, as Rilke wrote a hundred and ten years ago, 
we cannot live the answers. Yet.'

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