A soulmate is not someone who shares your interests and is attractive to you. 

A soulmate is someone who is willing to grow with you,

who chooses to be with you until the end, 

and will love you through good and bad.
It’s not about sunshine and laughter, it’s about mundane moments filled with unknowns. 

Love is so much more than a spark you have, or passions shared, 

it’s working for something deeper and lasting. 

I think that at the end of all things, we’ll see what really matters, 

and I think the things we produced with love and grace will be what we have to show. 

So love with purpose, 

love beyond yourself, 

and love knowing that what you are growing is beautiful and good. 

T.B. LABERGE // GO NOW

jen huang

Follow the roadmap of memory that carried you through. 

Trace the lines of sad and heartbreak. 

Navigate the healing and honor the fault lines that divide what was from what is to come. Send wishes that all was and is as it should and must and will be. 

Trust that it is so…

Jeanette LeBlanc

“Although we have been made to believe that if we let go we will end up with nothing, 

life itself reveals again and again the opposite: 

that letting go is the path to real freedom.” 

Sogyal Rinpoche 

You inherently long for the earth, your own skin, your passions, 

and your purpose that you fill your lungs with everything.

 Do not mistake the desire and longing for this type of fulfillment with the desire and longing for another human being. 

The greatest, wildest dance is ultimately with yourself 

and all that radiates outward from your own aliveness. 

This in turn will bring in the right people to share this dance alongside.

Victoria Erickson

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in the now

In the tantric tradition it is said that chaos is ‘extremely good news.’ 

When you are willing to enter into your neurosis, your confusion, and your hopelessness, you approach the threshold of the sacred world.

No matter where you look, all you can see is path. 

All of your experience is utterly valid and a pure reflection of life as it moves through you – life longing to know itself, finally, to be met, held, 

and metabolized within the vastness of loving presence.

You are starting to see that what appears is not a mistake, 

but a clear expression of a long-forgotten aspect of awareness, 

of an ancient vow you have taken to practice intimacy with all things. 

Each person, each holy feeling, 

each consecrated emotion a portal dropping into embodied presence.

It is risky to let in the reality that nothing is missing, that you are not flawed, 

and are not in need of fixing – that you could fully step into the miracle of the unfolding here and now, without first demanding life conform to your old dreams. 

You need not ‘heal your past,’ become ‘enlightened,’ meet your soul mate, 

manifest a cool spiritual job, 

or arrange your life circumstances according to the dictates of your hopes and fears. 

The kingdom of presence is here now. 

There is no love coming in the future. 
There is no grace arriving around the corner. 

It is shining out of your very body, pouring out of somatic pathways,

 and emerging out of your holy nervous system… right here, right now.

The risk of entering the gates of the mandala of wholeness is that, once inside, 

you will no longer be able to hide from your raging natural perfection. 

The dream of the unworthy one, the spell of the unlovable one, 

and the trance of the broken one will be dissolved in the crucible of aliveness. 

While a part of you will always yearn for this dissolution, 

you must ask to what degree this is what you truly want.

 For it is the disorienting end of one world and the glorious beginning of another.

Yes, it may seem like yet another ordinary Monday and that you are in an ordinary situation. But things are rarely what they seem. 

Please do not postpone your participation and wild embodiment for another moment.

 Love is here now. 

And is longing for you to offer yourself as a holding vessel 

through which it may come fully alive here. 

Love cannot do this without you. 

For love is you.

Matt Licata

the winged victory of samothrace

The hardest thing to do when you go back underwater, 

is talk about what the sky was like.

Iain Thomas 

At the heart of our matter as human beings, really the best thing of all is passion. 

Passion for another person, for a job, a cause, an idea, a place … 

Perhaps that’s what IT is all about – our purpose: 

trying to furnish your life with so many different kinds of passion that everywhere in it, 

there is something that fills you to bursting 

and makes you want to tell the whole world about it. 

 JONATHAN CARROLL