"All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was.  I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory. 
                I was naïve.  I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer.  
               It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with:  that I am nobody but myself.  "
~Ralph Ellison, "Battle Royal"
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Beautiful post and words!
ReplyDeleteHave a nice weekend Maria.
How true is that?!
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